Your anger is a positive force!

And how to use it for the better

Drawing by Tineke Tammes

'Bang!' My eight year old self swung open the living room door, stamped over to the stereo and turned off my mum and dad's record player (playing something hideous like the Everly Brothers or the Beach Boys at a ridiculously high volume).

'There's CHILDREN sleeping upstairs!' I shouted to 30 stunned partying grown-ups in a smoke-f…